Each writes one thing you have wanted to try. No judgment, no rules. It is a free at home date that runs about under 1 hr, in three steps.

Updated October 2026

Whispered Wish List

Each writes one thing you have wanted to try. No judgment, no rules.

Strike 1Each write down one thing you have wanted to try together, sealed in an envelope.
Strike 2Trade envelopes and read them out loud, low light, no interrupting.
Strike 3Pick one from each list to actually plan for a real date soon.

Upgrade itKeep a running shared list you both add to over the year.

RaincheckA whispered version works just as well with the lights already off.

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