You order for them. No vetoes, no previews. It is a $ out date that runs about 1-3 hrs, in three steps.

Updated September 2026

Menu Roulette

You order for them. No vetoes, no previews.

Strike 1Pick somewhere neither of you has been - counter service keeps stakes low.
Strike 2Order each other's whole meal in secret, drinks included.
Strike 3No swaps until both have taken three real bites. Then negotiate.

Upgrade itDo it at a night market and order each other one mystery stall each.

RaincheckDelivery version: build each other a takeout order from one app.

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