A mixtape mailed instead of texted, the old way, on purpose. It is a free long-distance date that runs about under 1 hr, in three steps.

Updated October 2026

Mailed Playlist Exchange

A mixtape mailed instead of texted, the old way, on purpose.

Strike 1Build a playlist of songs from the weeks since you last talked properly.
Strike 2Write the track list by hand and mail it instead of just sharing a link.
Strike 3Listen to the mailed list on the same day it actually arrives.

Upgrade itBurn it to an actual CD or tape if either of you still owns a player.

RaincheckA shared digital playlist still counts if mail will take too long.

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