Each picks the other's movie, no complaints allowed. It is a free at home date that runs about half day, in three steps.

Updated October 2026

Director's Chair Swap

Each picks the other's movie, no complaints allowed.

Strike 1Each secretly queues a film the other has never seen but should.
Strike 2Watch both back to back with a snack assigned to match each movie.
Strike 3Award a homemade trophy to the better pick. Winner picks next month too.

Upgrade itDress the couch to each film's theme and rate the snack pairings.

RaincheckShort on time? One movie each week, same trophy on the line.

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