Raid each other's old costumes and wear the most embarrassing pick out. It is a $ at home date that runs about 1-3 hrs, in three steps.

Updated October 2026

Costume Swap Party

Raid each other's old costumes and wear the most embarrassing pick out.

Strike 1Dig through old Halloween costumes or a thrift bin for options.
Strike 2Each pick the other's costume from what you find, no vetoes allowed.
Strike 3Wear them to a low-key dinner or a friend's party without changing back.

Upgrade itTake a proper photo together before anyone admits defeat and changes.

RaincheckA living room costume show works if going out feels like too much.

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